That is a horror story to me! I can't believe she really just tried to dictate the shoot like that! I mean, it is normal to maybe not agree with how the makeup, hair, or clothes are but you are there to do a job and it isn't up to the model to make those decisions. Shoot, if it makes the photographer happy then go along with it, you know? That's appalling behavior. Have you ever had to work with her again or have you heard if she is still actively working? Hopefully she hasn't acted like that on other shoots or else she might as well find a new job.